So what should the "man of my dreams" a.k.a. you be like? I probably have no idea, but that won't stop me from guessing...

Be different, surprising, exciting. Tell me about a new book by my favorite author that I haven't read yet... about this awesome band that I've heard of but haven't had time to check out. Share my interests, but more importantly, do all those things that are on the fringes of my interests, that I never had the chance and time to explore. I want to be able to exchange things, to learn from you. 

Be impulsive, even if a bit disorganized. I love doing things on a whim, without the long and tiring planning. I want to be able to say, "Let's go" and be on the way in 15 minutes. However, (un)fortunately, not all things can be done that way, so planing a trip few weeks from now or going to a concert in two months should be equally easy. 

Be around my age (-5, +10), although it ultimately doesn't matter that much. With a big age difference I'd be afraid that we may end up realizing that we live in two different worlds, but that's where my concerns end. So, if you beg to differ, please, be my guest... I'd love to be proven wrong. 

Be comfortable with who you are. It would be cool if you were out of the closet, but it's not a requirement. Ideally you would be as out as I am. Or at least out enough that there are at some times and places when we can behave freely in public. 

Be good looking... if you feel like it...  Well, would you believe me if I told you that looks don't really matter too much? I know, you wouldn't and neither would I. So let's admit it, they do matter to some extent... but sorry, I can't give you a recipe that works. Sure, if you are a blond, blue eyed, studly demi-god, you'll probably make an impression. But I've been known to settle for less. And every time I've tried to establish some kind of rules, say what kind of guys I liked, I failed miserably.. the next person that came along and turned my world around had nothing to do with those rules. So, while I hate to use that phrase, it is all about chemistry. Who knows what might work. 

Be worth my time, energy, and love.